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My Future, My Arse!

Wednesday, August 26th, 2009

 

Freud said that religion is a form of collective neurosis in which we regress back to a childhood state with protective father or mother figures in the form of gods. Perhaps, this definition can be extended to new age beliefs.

 I have always had ambivalent feelings about new age beliefs. On the up side, it helps people, to a certain extent, to deal with their existential anxiety and provide them with a re-assurance about the future. On the other hand, it lulls people into a very dangerous false sense of security and holds them back from actively making life’s decisions.But it is always interesting to me to see how these beliefs reincarnate in new forms.Take Rumpology for example. I came across an advertisement last week inviting readers to send a picture of their rear and a cheque for $125.00 if they want to find out what is in their future.  Rumpologists claim to have the ability to foretell one’s future by reading the characteristics of one’s buttocks!!! Apparently, they believe that the shape, lines, folds, marks, spots e.t.c. on the buttocks reveal a person’s love life, personality, past, future and fate among other things.

Rumpologists say that the art (or science?) of foretelling your fate through your buttocks was practiced in ancient India, Greece and the Middle East, but provide no evidence to support the claim. I would not be surprised to see a column soon in trashy magazines or tabloids asking readers to send pictures of their rear to be analysed by a celebrity rumpologist. Sir, you are predestined to be sad. Your future is bleak and I see no hope for you, the way your behind is shaped,” the keister expert would probably tell clients. If only people were born with perfect buttocks, their life would be perfect too.

 It saddens me to think that there might be people who are willing to let an ass, in this case theirs, run their lives. It is a pity that they do not choose to go about life making their own decisions to achieve results, but want someone else to reassure them about their future, make sense of life for them, tell them how to act, how to think, and how to feel.

Seriously, why take a crack at life if we believe that the course of our life is already charted?  Why not leave it as(s) is? Is it worth living our life if everything is, according to our posteriors, predestined?

“Procrastination” Tales Of Mere Existence

Wednesday, August 26th, 2009
Hmmm….I am blogging and surfing the net at work “instead of getting stuff done!” Found this funny video by Lev which we all can relate to. Enjoy!

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…Dust to dust

Saturday, August 23rd, 2008

Ever since I moved to Sydney my fight against dust seems never ending. The air here is dirty and I have found myself dusting my flat every other day. In spite of this I seem to find dust everywhere. Should I ignore it? Is life too short to fight dust?

Here’s an interesting poem by Rose Milligan. Perhaps Rose is correct and I need to stop obsessing over dust.

      Dust If You Must

      Dust if you must but wouldn’t it be better
      To paint a picture or write a letter,
      Bake a cake or plant a seed
      Ponder the difference between want and need.

      Dust if you must but there’s not much time
      With rivers to swim and mountains to climb
      Music to hear and books to read
      Friends to cherish and life to lead.

      Dust if you must but the world’s out here
      With the sun in your eyes, and the wind in your hair,
      A flutter of snow, a shower of rain
      This day will come around again.

      Dust if you must but bear in mind
      Old age will come and it’s not kind
      And when you go and go you must
      You, yourself, will make more dust.

Thoughts on Procrastination

Monday, August 18th, 2008

Procrastination is often said to be the silent killer of creativity and productivity, both for the individual and for society as a whole. We have all heard the saying, ‘Do not put off until tomorrow what you can do today’, so why is it so easy to fall into the seductive trap of procrastination?

Looking back into the mists of time, one can learn that mankind has been afflicted with procrastination for at least as long as leprosy and diabetes!

Procrastination even has had martyrs, like Archimedes, one of the world’s most famous inventors who, when his life was threatened by invading Roman soldiers, chose the heroic path of procrastination. Rather than attend to the immediate necessity of escape, the great man delayed this task and told the soldiers to leave him alone until he had finished his calculation! Tragically, the Romans killed him on the spot.

Ironically, it might be argued that it was not barbarian hordes, but rather the spectre of procrastination that finally brought the Roman Empire to its knees. While we are uncertain whether Nero really fiddled (actually played the lyre) in theatre costume, while Rome burned in AD 64, it is well-known that the warning plume of smoke coming from Mount Vesuvius was conveniently ignored by the inhabitants of Pompeii and Herculaneum in AD 79. Perhaps the inhabitants thought they might leave the city…yes, after the gladiatorial games will be okay…Unfortunately the volcano had other ideas and the cities were destroyed by ash and mud.

Echoing the procrastination of the great Archimedes, Leonardo da Vinci of Renaissance Italy, the most universal genius of the past 500 years confessed on his deathbed to how he had wasted his talents in unfinished projects. It is clear that Leonardo embarked on hundreds of projects, but finished precious few, and some of his greatest masterpieces remain incomplete. It is said that genius is very close to insanity, but is it actually much closer to procrastination?

Would the world of classical music be the treasure it is today without a little procrastination? Who can forget Schubert’s Unfinished Symphony? And why did Mozart and Beethoven leave incomplete works? Was it a joke on future musicians, who still strive to fill in the missing passages, or really just a case of procrastination, when Wolfgang would rather go down to the billiards hall with his pals, or Beethoven was having one of his mood swings and decided ‘postpone’!

in 1936, Sir Winston Churchill leading the battle, not only against the spectre of fascism, but also fighting a second front against the menace of procrastination that threatened to overrun the free world. Churchill warned us that, ‘The era of procrastination, of half-measures, of soothing and baffling expedients, of delays is coming to a close. In its place we are entering a period of consequences’. The reality of the decade to come proved to be far more complex.

Our book The Art of Procrastination and Other Time Wasters’ Thoughts does not debate the perils (or otherwise) of procrastination. Rather we say, “Manana!” and revel in the colourful ways in which people procrastinate, discussing peculiar reasons one gives to avoid work and laugh at it.

We invite you to join us on our exploration of this fascinating subject. Please let us know how you procrastinate.

Kris and Ian.


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Cheerful Chike

Wednesday, June 11th, 2008

We have a kitten here at work. Chike, was rescued from a dreadful state when she was only two weeks old, by my colleague. She was found in a client’s house severely injured, malnourished, dehydrated, and her ears were almost chewed off.

Inspite of her difficult past, Chike has grown into a lovely little cat and is psychologically healthy. Cesar Milan from ‘Dog Whisperer’ always mentions how dogs (presumably cats and other animals too) live in the moment, and we can learn a lot from them. It is us humans who brood over the past or the future.

Whenever she is around, Chike illuminates the office atmosphere. Her antics always gets my attention, I invariably end up joining her and never manage to get any work done.

Animals bring in so much of happiness into our lives. I would love to have a pet, but have never lived where I could have one. Hopefully I will move soon to where I can have pets.

Do it later.

Friday, June 6th, 2008

My friend Ian gave me the idea for the above cartoon. I liked it because I am trying hard (or hardly) to kick my habit of procrastinating. When I do that I’ll probably a write a self help book on overcoming procrastination-it won’t be soon though.

Ian and I are working on a new book. We are still struggling with its structure at the moment. Not because we both are self confessed procrastinators but be both have full time jobs and we do not have time.

Hey! Isn’t that the No.1 excuse procrastinators usually give?

Nothingness

Tuesday, May 27th, 2008

I got the idea for this cartoon while watching the movie Dead Poets Society last night. I must confess that I have always (though not openly) been fascinated by existentialism and have been reading and contemplating a lot on it recently.

Death has always been a major theme for existentialism. Is death the only certainty in life (apart from taxes)? Does death makes life absurd (other than providing a healthy source of food for the worms)?

I wonder?

McTherapy!!! Coming soon???

Sunday, May 11th, 2008

We seem to want instant answers to everything? Is modern society driving us to act out a parody of channel-hopping in real life?

Wonder what would happen if psychotherapy meets fast-food culture?

On Human Indifference

Sunday, April 27th, 2008

The world is a dangerous place to live; not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don’t do anything about it.

Just came across this quote by Albert Einstein. Is indifference worst of all human qualities? What do you think?

The lions hug?!?!?

Friday, November 23rd, 2007

Here’s an interesting Video. I wonder what exactly is going on in that lions mind? Is it just being playful or is it really grateful for being rescued?

Are we projecting our thoughts, motivations and desires here? Do animals have complex emotions?