Archive for the 'Self Growth' Category

Ignore Everybody

Monday, October 13th, 2008

The following are some interesting quotes from a blog that I have been following regularly and is now coming out as a book.

“Good ideas have lonely childhoods.”

“Don’t try to stand out from the crowd, avoid crowds altogether.”

“You are responsible for your own experience.”

“Nobody cares. Do it for yourself.”

“If you accept the pain, it cannot hurt you.”

Here’s a link to the first chapter of the book Ignore Everybody.

Looking forward to reading your book Hugh.

A Smiling Fish

Monday, December 10th, 2007

All right I will soon write some proper posts than loading the blog up with youtube videos and cartoons all the time. I came across Smiling Fish a while ago and have been planning to mention it in the blog.

“Smiling Fish” based on Jimmy Liao’s story won the best short film at the Berlin Film Festival. The jury praised it to be a simple and beautiful film (It is!!!). It is a story of a lonely middle-aged man who buys a fish that ’smiles’ at him. He takes the fish home and hopes to have the fish as a companion but learns to “let go” the fish.

I have been a great fan of Jimmy Liao’s work. His books have a strong message under the simple sentences and childlike characters. This, I believe, reflects Jimmy’s personal experiences. Feelings of intense loneliness, loss and sadness are expressed in the depiction of characters. On the surface, Smiling Fish is about a man who has bought a fish but in truth, it is about an individual trapped and feeling helpless in life. But, Jimmy always expresses a message of hope in the end. Enjoy.

Jimmy’s work can be found at http://www.jimmyspa.com

Change

Friday, November 16th, 2007

Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death
-Anais Nin

Prisoners of our mind

Thursday, November 15th, 2007

We humans seek comfort zones in form of attachments, our pattern of thoughts, the way we see things, our delusions, our attitudes, masks we wear and the way we construct reality around us. As creatures of habit we begin to repeat these, we believe that life happens to us and we limit our own potential.

We view life from a cage, construct reality, see faults in others way of life, but fail to notice it in ourselves. We see others in a cage without realising that we ourselves are in a cage. We fail to look at ourselves from a distance.

We have become prisoners of our own mind. A prison created by our own irrational thoughts. In liberating ourselves from this prison lies our growth and happiness. This reminds me of Tagore’s wonderful poem:


Where The Mind is Without Fear

Where the mind is without fear and the head is held high;
Where knowledge is free;
Where the world has not been broken up into fragments by narrow
domestic walls;
Where words come out from the depth of truth;
Where tireless striving stretches its arms towards perfection;
Where the clear stream of reason has not lost its way into the
dreary desert sand of dead habit;
Where the mind is led forward by thee into ever-widening thought
and action–
Into that heaven of freedom, my Father, let my country awake.